Why is femslash the smallest genre in the world of fanfiction? Why is femslash the most underrepresented relationship type by a sizeable margin? More importantly, why is it that almost all femslash writers are queer women? Male slash pairings are written by straight women, queer women, and even some men (I say “even” because men are rarer than a two dollar bill in the world of fanfiction) and they’re read by a mostly female audience. Femslash has a completely different ideology, because it’s almost exclusively written and consumed by the community it portrays. Unlike a straight girl writing about two boys having sex (and I guarantee that they’re two conventionally attractive white boys whose female love interests have been deemed either worthy of death or asexual by the fandom), femslash is written by those whose identities and personal narratives are reflected in the stories themselves. Maybe the writer of that erotic scene hasn’t had sex with a girl yet, but damn, she has thought about it a lot. That queer author writes two girls falling in love even if they’re straight in the original work because two girls falling in love means something to her and to so many people like her, and it’s important that she sees herself in a piece of media whose canon forgets she exists. One of the great frustrations of LGBTQ media is the fact that so little of our representations end up coming from LGBTQ-identified creators, and thus we see inaccurate portrayals with limited diversity. Femslash exists because we were sick of being told we didn’t exist, so we wrote ourselves into their stories.

excerpt from a very long piece I’ve been working on for autostraddle about femslash and why there’s so little of it (and why we need to make more of it NOW)

I’ve always had a firm belief that one of the reasons femmeslash (and even m/f couplings) lacks the same popularity of slash between men is a subconscious desire for the writers to separate themselves from the story they’re writing/reading. Society teaches women to fear their own sexuality. While creating and consuming this kind of story does go against that principle, there’s still a deep uncomfortableness with the portrayal of women enjoying sex. This phenomena is discussed in This Film is Not Yet Rated, where displays of female sexuality receive a higher rating that displays of male sexuality.

(via tygermama)

Y’all know there are forums of straight guys writing lesbian stuff out there, right? Also that FANDOMS AND FANFICTION exist outside of the AO3-touched world, right? (CF Eric Flint and the Grantville Gazette).

(via last-snowfall)

Speaking only for myself – I write m/m slash because I’m 1. attracted to men sexually. 2. Identify strongly with male characters that see themselves as equals in a relationship and so does the culture around them (note, that last part is the important bit) 3. I’m not a queer woman and I’m not sexually attracted to women.  All of these things are okay for me 🙂 I like reading femslash and yes I wish there was more of it because I love strong women being with each other but it’s not something that makes my writerly brain go PING and is a story driver for me. I’ve often wished I could but nope.

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