thessromania-deactivated2018010:
[Anon #2] Heartsrunwild told Seb how she is being dragged through the mud and being called a stalker, when she saw him (again) at RICC today. Like maybe stop fanning the flames? I can’t with this woman, she is old enough to know better. She flew across the world for this trip, saw him in LA (two days in a row), and now followed him to RI and is seeing him again for another two days. She needs to slow her roll a LOT.
The FS mod has her own reasons for not adding fuel to the fire. That’s fine. She doesn’t have to – I’ll stoke the whole goddamn thing myself.
Let’s be clear: what the heartsrunwild girl did was NOT OK. Was she the only fan at the con trying to find out where he was staying? I’m sure not. But she was the one posting about it, and gathering herself a little army of cheerleaders, and even now she has no shame about it. She thinks anyone would do the same.
Wrong.
I’ve gone to cons. I’ve met and talked to people who go to cons frequently. And magically NONE OF THEM HAVE EVER TRIED TO STALK HIM AT HIS HOTEL. They were fucking happy to get to meet him at this autograph table and during the photo op. They were grateful. It was enough for them.
In a word, this girl is greedy as fuck. He’s been nice to her every time she’s met him, and still it was not enough for her. Meeting him twice in LA and multiple times throughout the day in Rhode Island was not enough. Still she thought she had the right to stalk him to his hotel so she could “talk” to him even more. Because he was soooo excited to see her, right? Surely he’d be just as excited to see her if she knocked on his fucking hotel room door, right?
Wrong.
(How can someone not realize that the last thing he would need after a whole day of socializing with fans, is for more fans to interrupt his down time?)
So no. I will not take this lightly. I will not dismiss it as harmless fan behavior.
Sure, I get not making a big deal that she “brushed his abs” or whatever during the photo op. Was it kind of stupid that she bothered to even post that? Yes, it was an attention-whorey kind of comment. But it’s harmless. They were picking him up, etc. I don’t think she was being inappropriate.
But trying to find out where he was staying is a WHOLE different level of inappropriate, and that should always be condemned and loudly, lest any other fan get it in their head that “Oh it’s just an innocent little thing that everyone does.” NO. Not everyone tries to stalk their favs. Some respect their privacy and respect them as people, and don’t trying to hunt them down like animals in a fucking game preserve, which is what she was doing. She’s been hunting him across the whole of the goddamn fucking United States, like she can force herself into his presence enough that he’ll, what, be in love with her? Invite her up to his hotel so they can drink and braid each other’s hair and talk late into the night?
Get real. You’re a fan, hun. He’s a celebrity. Stay in your fucking lane and realize you’re no more special than any other fan, and you don’t deserve any special treatment.
x M
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