I am apologizing if this is long but, I think it needs to be said.
First let me say this. All celebrities are problematic. Margarita is problematic. Sebastian is problematic. If you try to say otherwise. You’re a liar.
Sebastian could be considered problematic because he wears leather. Sebastian could be problematic because he might smoke. Sebastian could be problematic because of some negative fan encounters.
But the reason people like him is because he is a good person (from what we see). For the most part he knows how to treat his fans. He connects with his fans. He talks to his fans. He makes an effort to talk and connect with his fans. He knows how to be a “good” celebrity. He has a lot of younger fans looking up to him and I think that he realizes that. He understands how to act in the public eye. Therefore, he can “get away” with the problematic things. The good outweighs the bad in a sense.
Margarita needs to learn how to act. She needs to learn that when you are in the public eye people watch you, especially when you are dating someone like Sebastian Stan. When most of the people liked who you were before you started dating him. That says something. When people say that they like you better when you don’t post about him. That says something. She needs to understand that sometimes it is okay to say things and sometimes it is not. She needs to learn how to act.
If she was a nicer person on social media. If she supported her work. Made an effort to speak to her fans (NOT THE ONES RUNNING SEBASTIAN STAN FAN ACCOUNTS). The real fans. The fans who like her for her. Made an effort to let be herself. I have a feeling that a lot more people would like her. I think that people would allow her to “get away” with the problematic things.
One reason I think that we are so hard on her is because she doesn’t give us anything positive to say. She doesn’t work on her acting. She doesn’t make an effort to open herself up. (Yes, Sebastian is private, but he makes the effort to talk and connect with us.) We don’t need to know every aspect of her life. But maybe something small. Like more Betty photos. Maybe more photos of her. More photos of NYC. Give us small aspects.
Don’t give us the constant Sebastian Stan photos. Don’t give us the likes on the Sebastian Stan fan accounts. Don’t give us the coke picture. Or the vague post. Don’t make us guess on anything. It’s stupid and childish. Or the stupid “thehatstayson…” comments. No. Just stop. No one likes when anyone does that. I hate it when my fave celebrities do it. So when someone I don’t like does it. It’s even more annoying.
Give us the old Margarita. Give us the photos of Betty and going out with your friends. Give us the dancing Margarita. Give us the Margarita who likes her fan accounts. Give us the paintings and the rest of the small looks. Give us the positive things to talk about.
It is annoying because we know its there. We know that you can be someone that we could possibly like. BUT she makes it so hard to like her now and days.
We don’t like her because of her attitude. We don’t like her because of the way she presents herself. We don’t like the fake, I am better than you attitude she has. We don’t like her acting. We don’t like her because she hasn’t given us a reason to. We don’t care that she is dating Sebastian. I don’t care if you have been a fan of Margarita for a long time. You have to admit that she has changed since she starting dating Sebastian.
She just needs to change her attitude and be nicer on social media. Be nicer to your fans. Be nicer to the people who support you. Not to the fans who only care about you since you are dating their fave.
Tumblr Exodus 