princessbenjamin:

I have this old school belief that  fans shouldn’t share any fandom stuff with non fannish people that they don’t need to know. To others, it may come off as creepy or strange and pathetic. A lot of the time, they’re not laughing with you, they’re laughing at you.  

You get so wrapped up in your own little fannish world that you start to think everything you’re doing is so logical and obvious that everyone gets what you’re thinking and what you’re trying to do. 

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